Some of the main issues that occur in the Mother-Daughter relationship:
Daughter compares mother to other mothers, undervaluing the impact and worth of her own mother.
Mother makes daughter become a mother too soon by using her as a soundboard to nurture her own needs, while neglecting the needs of her daughter.
Daughter moves away from mother trying to use distance for greater control over her self-concept, but the distance only disguises or deepens her need to be vulnerable and address forgiveness.
Mother prioritizes romantic partnerships over attention and time given to her daughter.
Daughter overgeneralizes and blames mom for everything wrong with her or the family, failing to see her responsibility for her own challenges.
Mother projects onto daughter her unfulfilled dreams or on-going fears, passing on anxiety and not-enoughness.
Mother and daughter lose sight of where they are both perpetuating legacy longer, deeper, and older than their relationship.
What is Mother-Daughter Coaching:
Mother-Daughter Coaching is a 60-minute communication tool to deepen trust and connection with your mother/daughter and trust in your self. Mother-Daughter Coaching helps the past to be resolved so that each person feels more themselves in the relationship, more understood. You are able to make braver, more authentic decisions as gaps in understanding your mother/daughter fill up gaps in yourself.
In this coaching program, you will:
Master the art of finding what’s underneath the surface of a conversation to lessen confusion, apathy, or avoidance
Understand how to tell your story and how to listen to her-story
Understand how to use the past as information for moving the present forward
Build new behavior that expands the net each person has to fall into when times are tough
SAVE TIME—avoid losing the opportunity for new memories from staying distant, emotionally unavailable, or maintaining unfulfilling norms out of fear of the unknown